here is some pictures of what i have for bios settings, and they are what i have mine set to.

which has been rock solid for the last yr+ since i built it. but my troubles just started with this extra 4gigs of ram.
and here is the rest of my bios settings for my over clock i have.

i hope these pictures will help you in helping me. since what i have for bios settings are different then what most have and since i have a Intel chip set this is what i am stuck with.
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doh i hit the submit in stead of the preview lol. well as for right now i am at stock clocks/bios setting for the cpu. the only thing that is still set is the timings and voltage for the ram. which right now the timings are 5x5x5x18, and whats on the ram is this 5x5x5x15. and the voltage is at 2.150 which i have had it set to that since soon after i got this set up running. which is a yr now so far so good. but i will leave this like this till i find out more info. i also have a thread over at acktheramguy.com as well for this.
i hope to get some good answers or help to get me into the right direction.



I think that is very sad. 
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